Tuesday, April 14, 2009

"wise thoughts"

Life is not something very easy to solve. Life is not very east to fight. Yet everyone finish his or her life in their own way in the limited time. At some point of time some remains happy n others miserable .The reason for all those happiness n misery is unknown n we give that to almighty .All the unknown things goes to him to define n explain.

At some day I might reach up, to hear him say why all this happen. I might cry or laugh thinking how stupid I was, thinking and reacting foolish all this way.
Still I love my life….
I have my own worries, my own doubts, happiness n misery still I love to live coz each day is different and every moment so promising that I hope for the next moment

That’s the surprise of life. We r turned n turned, roles n roles, but what we know about all this is just nothing yet we r proficient in everything

We see the real human when he is hurt
We see a real human when he is losed
We see a real human when he is hungry
We see a real human when he is nothing
We see a real human when he is alone




If one lives through all this, if he overcome all the pitiful glances n disgusting comments, if a begger fight his hunger with an old bread crump n warm his body with a sack, he know life. He know, life is not so beautiful, life is not easy but still he arrived ..He lived. He finished his life time in the most difficult role .He was successful.Can he be??


Philosophically I can say anything but the silent tears he swept from his hollow cheeks, his silent prayers asking why he was chosen to suffer , the silent days when he thought of nothing but food, the feeling that swarmed up seeing his children’s tired eyes…….why the world is full of people who is soo different in everything from thoughts to food, from dress to colour, from looks to language…

I donno the answer ….but I just want to live happily helping others n making everyone around me smile .I love everyone, I love every flower, I love every music, I love every shades of colours….
I am not simple but I love to be simple…

Like so many have said before…Happiness is something we all have in ourself ,its not our life,our situation nor the happenings around us that makes us happy or not…
Simply believe ..
Everything happens for a reason…

Wait for the next day, believe firmly something will be there to bring the goodness.

When we give something to other, we may not get it back from the same but it might be from the least unexpected…

Don’t feel sorry about anything that happened..

Life is a challenge-we ve to meet it
Life is a gift –we ve to accept it
Life is a mystery-we ve to solve it
Life is a journey –we ve to finish it
Life is a battle –we ve to win it

worries!!

I never thought of job as something with so much importance than something to earn money until I started looking for a job. Now I know how much important it is to be in the right job .Lucky are the one who got job which matches with their talents n interest. Qualifications are nothing but paper sacks that burden our head. It makes us take a way that is prescribed for those typical bundle carriers.

But in this world when everyone searching for the right job it’s so difficult to find out what we want over what we get. Money is just a compensation .If we all work in the field which we like we will try to excel, to develop our self even if we r not up to mark. We will be ready to do hard work coz we know that’s what we r destined for n that’s where our true interest lies.
That’s what makes me tensed all in my life when I realized this truth. What if I am caught in the wrong job? I may work, I may earn. but don’t think about growth in a positive way, don’t think about a day when u get a real appreciation which u desired for rather than what you worked hard for....
Ye attitude matter a lot
We may get adopted, we may get accepted but what in the real depth of ours can b quite different n that makes life so difficult when it seems so smooth…..

.The question remains .am I in someone’s else shoe? Why I always feel like I have to change all this and this is not what I wan me to be? Why I think all my work as meaningless even when I get appreciation? Why I feel useless when all other think am worthy. Because even when we act very good, taking out all energy to make the mark ,the one thing we all forget…It needs only dedication n interest to do a real work in the right way if u r the real person. Others struggle n struggle to meet other’s expectation ignoring ours.


But what is right n wrong is again a question?

In life we reach this point for almost everything. What I want from me? What others expect? And all talk about recognition from others and self satisfaction!!!
Why we all look for others response n recognition more than self satisfaction?
I donno..me too includes in that category…


We need good salary, high pay means high status; high status means power n recognition.
But only few reach there. Others struggle to get there. But don’t you think it was there way n our way might be different?

Qualifications are very rare match to our interest. Our interest may not offer job security, may not pay your fat bills, may not make your parents proud. .still… u wont be bored at work..u wont be sad to take Saturday not as holiday n wont be getting out of the bed thinking how sad it’s a working day…Its not a guarantee still we can be assured .We have a hope to excel. We have a hope to stand out rather than just like being 1 out lakh…And once we really achieved something from our passion ,that only gives you true happiness not doubting about self satisfaction nor recognition .It will all be there…


a short cut to happiness is simply doin wat u love to do..

a small note..

If I didn’t start yet I may sigh one day thinking sadly on how I missed to jot down all this beautiful moments………………

I never checked grammar with very much interest when I write, bcoz for me it is a secondary thing. I want to give life n feel to the sentences rather than bothering about sentence construction and grammar. I believe in words speaking life rather than a no mistake sentences .But from today I made it a point to be little bit serious about using my grammar coz in life everyone earns n try for perfection an am tryin 2 b on d same way for a change .
Now I am seriously thinking about learning more idioms. Some years back I used to run when my dad jokingly ask meaning of some words n idioms ,thinking why we need so many words when the words I know r quite enough to express my thoughts.
But life is always ready with answers .Now I understood the importance of being perfect and also about getting more n more words in our mind’s dictionary. Only when we have more n enough words we could use it bountifully just like money. We don’t have to gauge n use when we have ample amount