What do you think of space? Don’t look @ sky please…
I meant personal space…
I strongly believe that we should give others space to live and we should demand space from others. I had lot of fights with this term.
Many won’t understand its importance. Even if it’s your best friend, your lover/partner, parents, siblings or celebrities, they are individual with their own unique likings, their own unique past, their own secret dreams and ambitions and their own thoughts. However close we stand, finally, they only have to live their life, only they can bring the real happiness in their life as only they knew their own unique definition of happiness.… We have to accept that fact…
If you are too judgmental we can never ask a person to open his heart…Its acceptable to have curiosity about others (whatever wonderful terms we use,on the bare mode, its human curiosity that make us listen to others (most of d times)..Don’t be ashamed, it’s this human instinct that lead to all the great discoveries and made us unravel the power of knowledge)
But being too judgmental about other’s life or action is something I loath. Very rarely I place myself in such situations as I never give a chance for some one to ask ‘What happened?’ Every thing in our life will have different versions and I used to tell the versions the listener expects and that’s it. “Satisfy the hunger, no more they will be hunting”-I read this somewhere about lions and I quiet confidently think that it is applicable to human also.
But I have seen many of my friends standing clueless, utterly confused on what they want just coz they r worried on what others will think. I will say it as quiet natural to be worried about what others’ think. To an extend we all live for recognition from others.

The point I don’t understand is why people place others on the same confusing stand when they themselves knew the agony of being there. Might be to check how strong we are on our decision... I don’t know...But personally I think, this test is too hard that many falls here crushing their dreams for others...In other way we ourselves are responsible for this situation .Only when we stop chasing other’s life ,others will move away from you …Then only you will get the space you crave for..
It’s not the term ‘privacy’ I am confusing with space .Space is Space. We all should have space to think and space to take decision about ourselves....

If a person is hurting neither you nor the society, then, why can’t we leave him/her alone.

People are getting so much crowded with other’s thoughts that unknowingly they are loosing the power to think by themselves…What this generation is lacking is the awarenss on what they want or what they can . They want to hide in their own life with all the so called fun , never bothering to observe and listen..

This should change. We should be more open to others…and lenient to ourselves…
Just like you want others to accept you, accept others too. It’s not about accepting there thoughts but accept the person as they are. And be what you really are…

Don’t change anything in your life until you are sure about why you are changing it…If you can’t find fault in what you are doing ,keep the heads up and fight. That’s the courage the world is looking for. You might be wrong….But finally you will know why you are wrong.
That do matter....Coz happiness means knowing what we are doing and why we are we doing that…In short, we should have a purpose in our life which we are fully convinced about.We should never give up an argument (to ourself or to others)until you are sure why you are agreeing...

Life might bring different twists n turns but never bend your dreams scaring to express what you believe…. Be sure of what you agreeing and make sure you are doing what you believe and not what others believe….

My B'Day

Hello,

Y’day was my B’day!! I turned 24...sounds a bit old na? Being totally helpless I have choose to accept the new “age count” with full excitement…Bday always make me feel young n very special... Wishes, gifts, cheers, cakes...
I had a totally different picture about me @ 24, few years back…I thought of myself being a bit more serious, matured, focused, independent. But there is not much difference I can spot other than being in a job n getting sum extra bucks to spend...Still I am the very same talkative, careless, clueless girl who thought of being in 20’s as something pretty great n wonderful…
But years do have seasoned me a bit here n there…Some for good and some still I cant set apart as good or bad...That’s d problem...We cant simply say experience done me good as I know something better than yesterday…In lot cases it is good to stay as know-nothing kid. That avoids lot of tensions n confusions …But again, we are choice less...We cant do nothing to wipe out all we have crammed in our head just to stay calm n free...It keeps on pondering …It keeps on adding …The best thing age do is, it will teach you how to “appear” calm and that’s the only thing the whole world is concerned about.

I never understood the point of asking someone’s approval/persuading them to say “its fine” when we are damn sure that they don’t really ‘like’ it (not about single occurrences nor about official stuff) .It only makes us feel good … making the other appear ‘ok’ with what u r doing…And in most cases it will makes the other confused trying to digest it as good (at least my opinion was asked!) when mind says the other way…It happens to me and of course ,I do this trick to others too …One more shortcut to happiness !!
That’s what age teach you...Tricks, tricks n lot more tricks… Some we are so used to that we consider it as well and correct…Leave it!

So, back to my Bday….It was simply great…Again proving me wrong, I am finding my life after college & school, equally or sometimes more exciting than the earlier part … Nowadays ,It never occur to me to think differently between my colleagues & classmates…a bunch of fun…Might be coz we got lot of young people around here. Anyway, I don’t think my workspace will make me think and act maturely in the way I have imagined out from books and movies...But it does made me understand the importance of being careful, being organized, being more open to other’s view points & being independent…If all this adds up as factors that contribute to maturity, I am climbing up..

My great friends@ room had dearly enjoyed my Bday…Am damn sure!! When chocolate cake n cream created maps on my face I assured myself as lucky and my friends as very sweet. But my friends took it just as a starter….
Greasing me all over with all the stuffs my room could offer including some ayurvedic oil (medicine 4 sprains I guess) which keeps my hair stink even after two days and 4 hair wash is something very rare to do. Right? Think of poor me, Next day in office with bday sweets n sticky perfumed hair...My shampoos stood helpless and I had to run for tissue to wipe the oil that wells up in my hand n face (@office)...With full oily head I was feeling so sleepy that I was trying hard not to fall from my seat…My droopy eyes made most of my colleagues think/tease that I have drunk a lot on my bday eve!!!!!!!!!!!!..(Please believe I haven’t…….)

To be very frank the only thing I longed on this whole day was “SLEEP”. I was praying hard to get over the day very fast, to make the clock tick fast and to hit the bed soon…


P.S –Thanks a lot my friends…. for the wonderful bashing Birthday eve( with b’day song ,chocolate cake ,that never forgettable “attack”, “self indulging” bath , lays n ketchup with our never ending talks...) for the beautiful flowers, nice gifts and the messages that kept my mobz beeping with “Inbox full”pop ups… Thanks a lot for the wishes…Love you all…


You have really made me feel special…