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We all are human.Its by sheer luck,blessing of a power which we bow our head, that we got all we have now.If we were born to a different family,if we were not protected by those who are around,if we are not healthy like this .Life wouldn’t be the same ..what we might have done with our life?
Whom v wud have turned for a help?Then we might also dream of someone who will help us to live forward…The child who sings in a bus might be praying to get one rupee when she comes near u..When we avert our glance,aren’t we looking away from ourselves..She is not there to show how gud she sings but to curb her hunger… ,Why we have to be so merceless about others?Is it coz we r lucky?or is it coz we r not realizing hw much lucky we r?Just think…..



Are nt we lucky that we could read this?
Aren’t we lucky that we don’t have to beg for food?
Are n’t we lucky that we don’t have to be scared of a night?
Arent we lucky that we have nice dress and sandals ?
Arent we lucky that we could walk talk hear and think,atleast??/
Think of someone who don’t have any of this…They too are living..in the same world,near us..everyday we r seeing them,everyday we change our glance from them
,we change our thoughts from their sadness to our happiness…from their colourless eyes to our colourful world.
Arent we supposed to do something to them?
When we don’t beat them…it’s a gud act
When we don’t despise them …it’s a gud act
When we don’t taunt and chase them…it’s a gud act

But are we capable only to do this much??
Why we learned only to close our eyes to distress ?
Why we don’t even bother to think about them?
Even if we think and sympathies , why we r not thinking about an option?
Why we think and put aside all this as life and fate?
Do you think we r dat much incapable?


You fell down n couldn’t stand up .. den ur friend says “ ohhhh soooo sad ..what a pity my dear” n not even giving u a hand…what u ll get out of that? What u ll feel about ur friend?Will u think “oh hw gud she is.. in her heart atleast she could sympathise with me’



Feeling sorry is good but it is useless if you don’t act.
Don’t ever think you are good because you pity others.
Don’t ever think you are good because you are sensitive
Crying for others is good but what use those tears make?
Tears never check their hunger neither pain
Tears pacify ourselves ,only ourselves….


It all make sense only when you dare to ACT


What a human need is not pity nor sympathy but “help” a “support”.It may not be monitory ,it can turns out be anything that comes under “help”..n as I wrote earlier..money is very crucial for us n just like that for others too..so in this issue we cant ignore the importance of financial assistance .
But foremost thing is the willingness of each of us to ACT ...not money, not power or age .






First step ,
Be ready to act for a good cause .Fill yourself with positive thoughts ..open your eyes wide.we have lot more to see…..
Believe , without restraining your happiness and interests you could help others.

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my dream

In this world money does matter!!!



I do agree.But is that the only thing?









I have heard many who got in this “middle world” utter-“First we will make enough money and then we will act”.But the question is what is “enough”?
To be very honest ,I had never come across a situation where I had felt ‘oh enough’ ,other than with food!!Thats the fact.bare truth!!! I Am not authoritively generalizing my stand but my stand do matter na? Of course, I too might be representating a small crowd like me.



There are lot of things we can do with our small earnings which can be a lot big help to some one else. Something which sound very silly like a one rupee might help someone to hold his hunger, sometimes his existence.

Let me share my dream ..

I wanna make others understand the simple way of helping others without loosing anything .Along with them i too wanna learn more.

Am not speaking about big sacrifices nor big donations !!!
But there are something around us which we could afford to lend a hand.


Let us find out new ways and share with all on how to feel great without regret.
Let the youth take initiative!!!

new thoughts

Same rays pouring in
Waking me up tetchy
My cozy pillow alluring me more

Prayers, plans n plans
Cold splash shaking my spirit
Combing my lazy hair

Starting out one more day

Words n colors inviting
To charm me up in there world
Oh! I have got a different list
What I like is always a doubt
Troubling me round and round
That again left to life
Always the easy way to choose

Bubbling friends filling the days
Cracking jokes twisting lips
Troubled mind stare me in wonder

Same days passing
Making me feel strange

A fresh wind full of snowy mist
Dripping me fresh
Calm thoughts sliding in
I waited for a change

Once more the rays poured in
Woke me up tetchy
With my cozy pillow to allure me more....



Alone in my dreams i walked fast
To reach a destiny i am sure of..
Sandy wind and burning sun
Paved me the way ..
Gone are the days of colors,mist and greeny valley.

Time Woke me up from my favourite dream
Everything looked strange and new.

Faceless heartless the world is
Pushing me to smile with my crushed tears ..
Clueless i stood..watching the show..
Where i have no role to play
Waiting for a slot,never written for me
Which i took long to realize..

Leaving the stage behind
i touched the sand to float me away
away and away ..far away from this land..





















Hi,
Life is a bird with different wings to fly..we have to yet understand whether if it is ourselves who choose this wings or some other selects for us…Anyway we change this wings just like we change our directions .
In our life,when we reach a point ,where we stare with wonder how to move forward ..…When we feel that colors are slowly fading …emptying yourself into vacant thoughts ..n what left is blankness..
-A change -in thoughts,perspectives n priorities –is the only remedy. ..


I was talking about my blog to one of my friends n was thinking how could make this page helpful to atleast some..i had thought about it 1000 times n finally I will crush my thoughts with the answer-am writing for myself and not for others.n why I should be bothering about that!!-..ok let it be like that…If anyone have any new ideas ,I do welcome .oky???


I always tried to look life as a game ,where I have to play my roles well. And of course, I feel strange n confused when the response I get for my actions are different from my expectations .I always defines this responses as the outcomes of some external factors which I could not explain. But u know,I confronted with some situations recently which proved myself to be wrong.In our life we have lot of situations which we simply handle wrongly n carelessly .At that time all that things appear very casual n very natural.When we face the problem ,we get confused n depressed not knowing the reason nor the solutions.Later ,when we sit peacefully n think ,we understands how the situations might have made simple if we had been a little more careful earlier.
Success of a person is simply based on the rightness of the decisions he make. Everyday, Everyhour we are making decisions one after other ,to do something,not to do something n so on.Whatever we think, we will have alternatives in our mind.Whatever we choose,surely there will be something which we had avoided.Even if we choose the wrong one or the right one at the bottom of heart ,our decision will be questioned till we get the right/desired response And the funniest thing is that 90 out of 100 will choose to follow the one that seems easy and appealing at present.
When we take some decisions it is really very easy to get the right choice.a)if we select something n if we r thinking about excuses to avoid the other one b)if select one and we r thinking about excuses to select the other one.
Then be sure that that second one is the right one because right may not be very appealin at present nor easy to follow. Its human instinct to choose the easy one and psychologically everyone will try hard to make ourselves believe that the easiest one is the wisest choice.
Sometimes it might be true too but life is not that much simple.
In short, Shortcut for success in life is not taking shortcuts in life.

For fools,life appears to be too simple to live coz they r living in fools world where fun n food are the only things that matter.
But we have to think about others too na?

Do you know what the present day problem is?Number of this fun loving fools are increasing that ,they think others are fools!!!Finally the people who stand in between or the young ones get confused about who the real fools are and whom they have to follow.
This is where our world stands now.
Helo!!!!!Some ,surely have to help them out ..Dont force anyone to accept anything but atleast give them space to think and act rather than pushing them to follow someone else.
Let them decide to which category they wanna be.

wind of time can't grab from me

This day too started as usual. .late wake up, scrambling around to make up my time table, taking never-followed resolutions, chit chat with friends, working on my project, going out with amma for a small shopping, rushing back to open the door for achen who came earlier…forgetting to return the library book …

We forget everything pretty fast and it takes only fraction of a mille second to tide them back to our world …

2day I missed my grandfather very very very much…..When I arranged his wardrobe with all his dresses, files,books,some fading old letters,small small boxes ,his rudhraksha mala…I felt him there.his presence,his voice,his smell,his smile ,his frowns and d way he calls me….

Its so strange how people vanish from our lives so quick and how swiftly we live forward.He lived with us….He used to talk about everything under the sun ..When we were children me n etten slept hearing his stories .Still I have lot of stories in my heart with unknown endings..

I might have fallen asleep, my etten was always a better listener ..…Everyday after his routine evening walk he ll have two chocolates…

It was very difficult for us ,when he went away, not to wait for him in the evening...Unknowingly we went to his room to tell him something ,to take something ,to ask him something and suddenly we realize that he is not there….We felt our home drenched in silence…The depth of that silence only four of us know…and mostly to amma who stayed back at home when we all went to office n college…He was our part n d way we miss him no one in this world will…

When he was admitted in the hospital..when everyone said there is no hope..we prayed hard with full of hope and confidence..,Till then we had never felt ,we never knew ,that one among us can simply fly away like that.He was 82 and Its now 4 years…But still that day reminds me of my shocked tears, too warm for my cheeks n those white hospital grills on which I gripped hard....

Many say I look like him n sometimes talk like too…He was pretty strict and very much disciplined unlike me..And I was his only granddaughter who talked to him whatever comes to my head.Sometimes he turned angry but at the bottom of the heart we both knew each other very well …and I got tricks to cheer him up..

I was always a complaining box uttering “appoopen like etten more n not me”…He knew it is my idea to get more attention n he laughed when I said like that.

.Often I was there with him to arrange his room .I was a very curious naughty little girl that I pocked my nose into every box and old cover ,reading all old letters I could get.. I can still hear his scolding call “athiraaaa… ..”..and see me putting everything back very quickly with a slinky winky smile …All that moments now I hold very close to my heart like his smell and voice…That’s the only things we have got, to keep, unscathed by the wind of time…We never realise how important someone was in our life until they walk off…

We still keep his room in the way he had kept….His things in the place where he had choose to keep…Every time I achieved something or got something special I feel like running to his room ,sitting near his chair n telling

him how much happy I am…But...

His chair lay vacant, both in his room n in our life…

He still lives in our heart, guiding us, caring us …